MY DEAR MEN,

While 99% of men pray and look for a woman who can be a ‘’helper’’ to them, This Man, David Meyer, prayed for a Woman he could help. The very first time he ever met Joyce and tried speaking to her, she gave him an aggressive sarcastic response which obviously drives many guys away, but not a man who knows what he wants.
Sexually and emotionally abused by her own Father from the age of six for fifteen years, with her mother once walking in on them, her husband on top of their only 14year old daughter then, walked out and came back 2 hours later and acted as though she hadn’t been nor seen anything at all, Joyce had it all. At 18 years of age, Running off with the first guy that ever showed interest in her, a guy who ended up being an abusive manipulator and a con, experiencing a miscarriage and being abandoned with her first child, at 22 Joyce returns home to the abusive Dad who is happy to have her back for his wicked sexual pleasures.
Uneducated, Depressed, grumpy, unhappy, verbally abusive and bitter, nothing was worse enough to give Dave, a qualified engineer, reason enough to take off or reason enough not to marry this girl of his dreams and only five Dates after meeting her, he married her.

Grooming her in Christ, simply by his unwavering love and patience for her, then believing in the great person she could become, David took all his savings and put his wife on TV, fully convinced she had a Message that could help many around the Globe and that’s despite experiencing so much pain in his patience with her, on her path to spiritual, emotional and mental healing from all the abuse she had endured since the age of six, well, although she also helped make the journey easier on him as she had a teachable heart. Fully aware of her many weaknesses, he still loved her enough to believe in her and show her to the World, building one of the greatest organizations in the World, love beyond the veil.

They have been married for 40 years. Joyce trying to gratefully describe her husband says of him; he has a reverential fear of God and a man that has loved me as Christ loves His Church, UNWAVERING .
Who doesn’t know Joyce Meyer? How many of you have heard David Meyer speak or seen him on stage?
Now, such a man is qualified to teach qualified Leadership, he is unselfish, serious and admirable.
If you can manage to raise into greatness your own home, especially your own Wife, then you are a LEADER indeed. It is sad to note that, Too many guys in our generation are busy looking for a woman who can be their ladder and support on their way to their ambitious ‘wherever’. Where are the real men? Those looking for someone they can help, raise, polish and invest in with no strings attached? Will a woman ever believe in Love simply because you crossed her path? What memories are you leaving with the women whose paths you cross? Have you stood for Unwavering Love, Focus and integrity? Will you be man enough and stop looking for finished products, later boast about winning them, then ending up abusing her?
 
FYi: We are all broken in one way or another, including you.
I’m so sick and tired of men posting and talking about how and what women should be and shouldn’t be, things like, how to keep a man, how to win your man back and a whole lot of junk I keep seeing and hearing about women from especially men. It also looks like, Blogs, posts and books by especially men telling women how to sustain a relationship or marriage have much followership of both men and women, than anything ever advising men on how to handle and treat women. It seems like Women are usually to blame for most of the ills in the World and are the ones with a lot to learn when it comes to sustaining ‘’relationships’’ and ‘’marriages’’, according to most Posts I have been observing for some time, here on social media, Churches, clubs and many other places. How I wish men could start challenging each other on how to better treat women instead.
I thought, I dedicate a few of my posts to Men especially and show you what women also wish men would be like for a better World.
 
Men with attitude of David Meyer are the best.

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