WHAT EVERY WOMAN NEEDS TO KNOW

  1. Your biggest enemy is yourself. That enemy is the one who makes you overthink, develop a low self-esteem, make you emotionally unstable and give you ulcers.  Love yourself from the inside first before you expect love from the outside
  2.  You are not in a relationship with a man until you both clearly state it.  Don’t get carried away by the idea of love with a man simply because he spends time with you or treats you special
  3.  If you are in a relationship or marriage, demanding your man to spend time with you will not make him do so.  A man willingly spends time with you because you give him peace and he enjoys your company. Attract him the same way you peacefully and warmly attracted him when he was pursuing you
  4.  Mr.  Right is the man who offers a conducive environment for you to be the best you. Choose your environment well
  5.  Your husband will never find you if you keep fooling around with other women’s husbands
  6.  Mr.  Right can also hurt you. The difference is that Mr.  Right hurts when he hurts you, he apologizes, owns up to his short comings and makes effort to love you better. Love is a learning process
  7.  Silent treatment will not solve anything. If your man hurts you, learn to speak your hurt and teach him to love you better. The best couples have mastered the art of conflict resolution
  8.  Most men don’t mind being corrected. What they do mind is the tone with which you correct them. The world has been harsh towards women for years, but tone down your defensive mode and learn to communicate effectively with respect and love. You two don’t have to fight and argue to look like you are addressing issues
  9.  A man who is not serious about you will avoid accountability, will operate in grey areas and will hide you. You will never go far with him. Serious men like being kept accountable, they take pride in what they commit to and are not afraid of responsibilities
  10.  Getting pregnant for a man will not make him serious about you. Men are serious about a woman because they have a personal vision that includes her
  11.  If you are not a woman who knows herself, relationships and marriages will bring you drama. Your self awareness is your personal responsibility
  12.  If you do know yourself and you get married to a man who doesn’t know himself, he will frustrate you. Be careful in him being lost he doesn’t make you lose you. When marriages go bad, the repurcations are heaviest on the woman
  13.  Just because you have a relationship with God or you marry someone who has a relationship with God does not mean your marriage will work. You two have to learn to relate with each other, not just with God
  14.  There are good men in this world, just like there are good women in this world. You will not encounter those good men if you keep entertaining the wrong ones and frequenting where the wrong ones dwell
  15.  During dating, if you want to see the calibre of man you are getting to know, put off sex and see if he will stay, if he is interested for more than just sex. Be careful, some men will tell you all kinds of promises to get you to bed. They are just curious about how sexing you feels like, not interested to grow with you. Once they sex you, the curiosity goes, especially after you get pregnant
  16.  Relationships/marriages don’t always end or struggle because of the man, sometimes you are the problem. Learn to be honest and objective to see your wrong. If you two work together, your love will grow stronger
  17.  An insecure man will fight everything that is good about you; from your success, your career, your beauty, your personality, your education and he will blame you for his own issues. He is the problem, not you.  Don’t dim your light for a man whose identity is in darkness
  18.  If you have a good man, don’t exaggerate the wrong he has done today to the point that you forget how good he has been to you. Don’t make him feel unappreciated because he didn’t do as you wanted him to today. Keep your perspective and don’t overreact
  19.  Don’t be that woman who has been so damaged by wrong men that when the good man comes along you push him away
  20.  Before you go and share your issues with your man to your friends, share them with him.  The solution lies between you two. If he is stubborn or you two still disagree, then share with someone he can be accountable to, like a true friend or a counsellor, if it gets worse, involve both your parents
  21.  Disagreement or a bad day in your relationship or marriage doesn’t mean it is breaking apart. Keep calm. Don’t panic
  22.  No matter how much your husband loves you, he might not see your dreams or even support you that much. You have to learn to defend and nurture your dreams even if he doesn’t get it
  23.  Complaining and nagging will never give you the desired results, it will only push your man away from you and make him tolerate you instead of enjoy you. If you want to inspire him to do more for and with you, appreciate him, have pleasant conversations with him, be easy to talk to
  24.  If you don’t learn how to say no, people and the world will use you and dump you
  25.  Remember, there is more to life than marriage, sex and having children. You are a blessing with so much to accomplish and pursue as an individual
  26.  Don’t be hard on yourself. Pat yourself on the back for how far you have come
                   Class dismissed !!!

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  4. QUALITIES OF A GREAT WIFE:

    1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT.
    She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her.

    2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE.
    Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she’s a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected

    3. SHE MULTIPLIES.
    She will turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn’t sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for.

    4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED
    Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too

    5. SHE LOVES THROUGH FOOD
    She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too

    6. SHE’S FUN
    Though she’s intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company

    7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP
    When she’s stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn’t suffer alone

    8. SHE’S A REFLECTION OF GOD
    You see her and see God, she’s becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued

    9. SHE IS CONFIDENT
    Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can’t bring her down. She has admirable qualities

    10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT
    You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out

    11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS
    She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends.
    She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man

    12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY
    She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks physically good

    13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE
    She is not afraid to make sexual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her. She is sexually exciting. She is faithful to him and respects sex

    14. SHE NURTURES
    She takes care and covers children; whether her own or other people’s.

    15. SHE IS A TEACHER AND A STUDENT
    She is one to advice and correct her man with love but also willing to learn and be corrected

    16. SHE GIVES GREAT HUGS
    Her touch is reassuring and comforting. She leaves you feeling loved and cared for

    17. SHE IS NOT INDEPENDENT
    Though she is successful, professional, has her own money and is educated; she admits she needs her man.
    Being a modern woman doesn’t mean she ages alone in her big mansion. She needs to love and be loved

    18. SHE DOES NOT DO DRAMA
    She values her peace and makes no apologies when she walks away from nonsensical matters.

    19. SHE BLESSES AND ADDS VALUE:
    Everyone who encounters her is positively impacted. She oozes wisdom, uplifts you and speaks to King or Queen in you

  5. HOW NOT TO TALK TO YOUR SPOUSE

    1. Don’t order your spouse around like a servant. It shows pride.

    2. Don’t talk to your spouse as if your spouse is a congregant and you are the Bishop. It shows no romantic love. You are not on the pulpit.

    3. Don’t talk to your husband like he is a child, in a condescending way, “Let me tell immature you what to do”. It shows disrespect.

    4. Don’t talk to your wife as if she is stupid or beneath you. It shows dishonour.

    5. Don’t command your spouse publicly or on social media “You, come read this”. It embarrasses your spouse. Use courteous words “Darling, please check this out”, “Honey, we need to wind up and rush to our other meeting.

    6. Don’t speak to your spouse with a bitter and rude tone. It pushes your spouse away and discourages conversations.

    7. Don’t shout at your spouse whether you two are alone or infront of the children or househelp. It causes trauma.

    8. Don’t talk to your spouse like a Police officer, interrogating instead of lovingly asking questions. It makes your spouse defensive and feel like running away..

    9. Don’t talk to your spouse filled with insults or vulgar language. It makes your spouse feel not special..

    10. Don’t talk to your spouse all guns blazing without giving room for your spouse to talk. It makes your spouse keep silent and let you talk by yourself..

    11. Don’t talk to your spouse like you do to your juniors at work. This is marriage, not employment ..
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