I decided to write this list because someone asked ” How can I be a friend to my Lover?” A friend is someone who understands you and adds value to your life. The popular saying says” Marry your friend or Befriend anyone you marry”.

  • Speak to her softly instead of shouting.
  • Always make her smile and crack jokes for her. Stare at her face and Smile, if she asks why smiling. Tell her she’s beautiful; laugh when she cracks jokes or says something funny. Frowning always is not spiritual.
  •  Walk a distance together.
  • Hang out together at eateries.
  • Watch movies( wrestling, football, and Christian films) and play games together.
  • Fulfill purpose by going into ministration together.
  • Write love letters to each other.
  • Read books together.
  • Read the Bible together.
  • Pray together.
  • Sing praises and worship together.
  • Shop for her.
  • Speak your dialect.
  • Call her sweet names ( Honey, Gem, Gold, my heartbeat, my sugar…)????????????
  • Coauthor a book.
  • Cook for her.
  • Seek her advice and follow it as the spirit leads.
  • Discuss your plans with her.
  • Keep your money with her. Support him financially.

Above all getting, befriend her, and watch things work for you in your relationship. Marriage is too long for you to journey with your boss, not a friend. It’s absurd for you to be in a relationship and still have opposite sex Bestie somewhere else. A relationship thrives when you start with friendship!

Marry your friend!

Befriend your Lover!

Marry your talking mate!

Marry your purpose mate!

Marry your spiritual mate!

Marry your genotype mate! (You should marry someone your genotype is compatible with. AA should marry AS. AA should marry SS)

Marry your academic mate!

Marry your playmate!


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