Is somebody whom they throw stones at, but instead of throwing back those stones… Just gathers those stones up and compile them to build a castle. Some situations are wake up calls that facilitate you to focus into your future, know that any vision that can’t be contented in your heart, God can’t grant it to you. How do you transform yourself using what is in your heart?
Build your character on Godly wishes, he will never compromise with standards. Let good moral behavior and character lead you. God reserves his Blessings, he can’t invest where things are gonna be spoilt at the end of the day due to influence or pride from opportunities which he provides.
Know how to keep a relationship, communicate. Talk about things, the good and the bad. Build trust. Be honest. Be faithful. Be there for one another. Make time for one another. Leave the past to the past. Know that having arguments are normal. Know that you won’t always be happy. Don’t expect change. Appreciate the flaws. Appreciate each other. Become best friends. Lastly, love each other unconditionally.
Help others God will pay you in another version. Stop laughing and looking at people as threats Spiritually, physically, economically… Avoid competition, it leads to unnecessary fabrication of words without proof simply to gain favor in front of someone, maybe that’s what you what you prefer… but do the right thing, God is so good at compensating when you spoil someone’s name. Take an example of Judas who exchanged his reward with 30 pieces of silver and money which could do for him nothing, because he betrayed a Blessing. He ended up with a curse, yet Jesus was giving internal life Blessings.
Dear Lord I’m thankful, you’ve done for me things that I can’t explain by mouth… Am a leaving summon for thee. I don’t use harmful words, but only helpful word, the kind that build up and provide what is needed, so that my say will do good to those who hear me.
~ Ephesians 4:29
My conclusion is that if men have not insulted you, God cannot exalt you. If people have not abused you, God can’t trust you enough to use you. The Spirit of glory leads a man to a place of service. It was the spirit that led Jesus from heaven to come on earth to serve a carpenter that He made. That same Spirit drove Moses from the palace to Midian, a Prince became a cattle keeper.
Am sure you can’t sit on any throne you didn’t get through service. If not, it won’t be long, that throne will vomit you.
The same man that anointed Saul anointed David. Yet that same throne made Saul mad, but made David an eternal excellence joy of many generations. Guess why?
Saul hurried his way into the palace, while David served his way to the throne. A man who paid the price of shame and tears on this journey is not your social classmate. Don’t envy any man who nobody has insulted while serving another man, his growing up to become nothing.